My restaurant romance could get us both fired

Dear Reader,

I hope you get some time off over the holidays to enjoy life. I really do. And keep in touch. My next column will run Jan. 5, 2009.

Dear Cary,

I recently began a new job at a successful restaurant. Prior to starting work there, I had been looking for something outside of the service industry (I've been working in service for years and felt burnt out), but this… » Full Story on Salon.com