Should I stay in Ireland because my boyfriend's mother has lung cancer?

Dear Cary,

I would really like to hear your thoughts on a fairly complex situation that I have been unsuccessfully struggling to reconcile for many weeks. It's a bit convoluted, so I will give you the short version, and hopefully it will make sense. I have been living in Ireland for the past two years, working quite unhappily as a financial manager in a big bank. I say "unhappily" as I… » Full Story on Salon.com