I'm strange. But am I authentically strange?

Dear Cary,

I'm strange. I don't mean that as a value-based word -- it is merely a fact and I am relatively OK with that. I am strange by normal societal standards. I am a young female who doesn't want to have children and doesn't want to get married and is fairly self-sufficient and pragmatic when it comes to relationships (i.e. I am not a romantic -- I am not waiting for anyone and might… » Full Story on Salon.com